Your Magnificent Life
I believe we all deserve the greatest and most grand vision we have for our lives, and so does Oprah. Life is a series of actions and consequences, so this can be easier said than done, loves. Creating your magnificent life may require a lot of inner and outer work. Also, it’s not always cute, but it is always worth it. We live in a world constantly seeking the approval of others, when the truth is we are already more than enough. Now, take a beat and ask yourself, “Are the people in my life good enough for me?” Let this marinate.
This isn’t a selfish question, rather a self-care question. You are who you surround yourself with. Look at the people you've chosen to be around-- your closest friends, family, mentors etc. Is your inner circle emitting positive vibes? Are they supporting you and encouraging you to be and do your best? Are they challenging you in healthy and non-toxic ways? Do you feel inspired and motivated, or drained, rarely listened to, and never supported after spending time with them? Your tribe indirectly helps you honor and create the vision you have for your life.
The choices you make now, have an impact on your future, and sometimes for the sake of your sanity, you may have to make the choice to free yourself. Influences, such as members of your circle or the environment you spend most of your time in, play a large role in whether you feel safe to be your authentic self or not. If your tribe is in alignment with the life you’re creating, great! But if you’ve been evaluating the members and see some strings need to be cut, now is the time to let them go in grace and level up. Look in the mirror, love on yourself, and know that you deserve to have what you have and more. This includes healthy relationships that support your growth and well-being, and allow you to honor the life you envision.
Cheers to living magnificently, may you be strong enough to let go, and never look back.
Are there some strings that need trimming in your life? Share your thoughts or questions in the comments below.
